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Coaching with Steph Bache

Helping women in their late 20s and 30s who feel stuck in something that no longer fits, figure out what's next.

You've worked to build a life that, in theory, sounds great. But something feels off. You feel disconnected from yourself, unsure of your direction, or stuck in a version of life that no longer feels right.

CareerRelationshipsPurposeConfidenceChange

You can outgrow parts of your life.

You might be:

  • questioning the path you're on
  • constantly comparing yourself to others
  • craving change, but having no idea where to begin
  • stuck between comfort and the fear of starting over
  • feeling disconnected from the life you've built
  • tired of overthinking everything and still feeling no clearer

Sometimes the hardest part isn't changing things.

It's admitting something no longer fits.

A moment of reckoning

There's a reason your 30s feel different.

By the time you reach your 30s, you're starting to know yourself. You've built a career, made some money, navigated relationships, and started figuring out who you actually are.

It's exactly that self-awareness that makes it harder to ignore when something feels off.

For the first time, you start questioning whether you're building the life you actually want, or the one you were handed. Whether the career, the relationship, the version of yourself you've been working towards is really yours.

And underneath all of it sits a quiet pressure: that by now, you should have it figured out. That your twenties were for finding yourself, and your thirties are for having it all together.

No wonder something feels off.

Careers.Relationships.Dating.Friendships.Lifestyle.

Often all tangled together.

About

Hi, I'm Steph.

I'm a transformational coach, and I help women move out of lives, careers, and patterns that no longer feel right for them.

Through understanding what's really going on, getting clear on what they want - and finally moving forward. From a niggling feeling, to clarity with a defined action plan and the confidence to make real change.

This is where coaching comes in.

Coaching gives you the dedicated space, and the right questions, to finally articulate what you're thinking and wanting.

Rather than ignoring that feeling of something being off, together we shine a light on it. We turn it into defined thoughts, then into actions. So you can move forward with the change you've been circling on for too long.

All the voices in your head sound the same. It's only when you speak them out loud - and have someone question them - that you can begin to see which ones are actually true.

Together, we'll

  • Get clear on what you actually want — not what you think you should want
  • Unpack your thinking to bring clarity and structure to it, leading to actionable steps
  • Build confidence in your decisions and direction
  • Create a real plan and the momentum to act on it

How we'll work together

01

Get Clear

We uncover what's actually keeping you stuck.

02

Reconnect

We figure out what you want and what no longer feels right.

03

Move Forward

We turn that clarity into meaningful action and momentum so that within a matter of weeks you're seeing tangible changes and shifts to watch your goals come to life.

For my clients, this has looked like:

  • committing to new life directions they'd been sitting on for years
  • getting a long-overdue pay rise
  • turning creative ideas into side hustles
  • rebuilding confidence after burnout or difficult life periods
  • rediscovering motivation and direction at work
  • re-navigating dating with a self-focused lens

Words from clients

What people are saying

Over the course of our six coaching sessions, she really helped me unlock some huge limiting beliefs I didn't even realise were holding me back. Her questions were challenging in the best way, pushing me to think deeper and confront things I was avoiding, but she always held space with so much love and care. I honestly felt really understood throughout the process.
- Hannah

Life gets busy. It's easy to put this on the back burner until you're years down the line and still nothing's changed.

You don't need to have everything figured out before you begin.

If something here resonated, that's probably worth listening to.